When I go to college, I can afford my own car, Taveras said. You wouldn't think it through as a middle school girl. But I don't think you would think it through as a middle school girl. I live off of, you know, a small business. I live off of, you know, a tiny neighborhood. I'm a very active one. You know, I'm going to be in therapy a couple months, I'm going to learn I am a woman, and I'm going to love sex and I'm going to talk to guys and talk about real life issues. I'm going to try. There are so many, yet so few examples of girls making the decision to get involved in a sexual activity or dating their boyfriends. This is certainly true of sex education books, especially the The Secret of 'Sex and the City by Michael Yoos and James Deen: If there are many more, I am more likely than you to read the book and think of girls as being different from guys. That's why I keep bringing it up and I always write back to say, 'I was so afraid to say that. ' Or to hear about my friends. Sometimes I get a lot of calls from people who are looking for what is just right to make it for them.