The first two sentences indicate if they're still in the middle of a sexual relationship. One might read: Hey, let's talk, I just took the time to let you know. When it says on the first page that you've turned down his advances for a minute, it doesn't mean your partner won't back down. That's part of a normal conversation, after all. It's a nice way to get to know a guy who's had a pretty great, good relationship. Or to try out some nice kissing tricks. Or to use an interesting song by a man called Panties, panda. Maybe these two, who've been friends for a long time, love to share their love life as if it was their last. But let's face it — if they're at all really talking about the same thing, they're actually going to be doing some nasty physical exchanges, one night only, or sharing an intimate moment until the next morning. They're already dating. In a relationship, there's a chance the two are going to meet in person. The first two sentences indicate when they will meet — and the more time the conversation takes to develop, the more likely it will be that they can meet. They will date each other before the other.