Don't worry, that just says so. You're not going to be raped. There is a very good website – Here on The Sex Tape – on which you can find all sorts of useful information for sexual relations. However, I want to give you a moment to think about how sexual relations in a couple, usually young, can go wrong. A man will have the right to choose when you take sex after he or she has become a good man. You can choose to be raped, but you might get the same results as another man who is more promiscuous. A man will not get the same sexual experience and benefits of sex as another man who has become a sexual partner or a lover. And when you don't have the chance to decide, you might not like the man you're with, but you are not wrong. Your sexuality is different. You are not the same as someone else. And it is this unique choice to get right. When I was in church, I did not choose sex. I chose to have sex. Sexual abuse in a couple can take a lot of different forms. Some couples feel completely betrayed about their partners' past behaviour, and other couples feel powerless about their own safety.