That, of course, is all I know. If, as I say, you're a member of an organization like the Rape Abuser Rights Center who doesn't want women raped by men, these kind of things are wrong, and even rape is terrible for other women. (I know that I should give her the benefit of the doubt—it's more important to you than it should be to me. At the heart of the issue of consent is the fact that rape is an issue of personal choice. Women's choices are a matter of choice, not of force. The concept of choice is one that can be articulated as both hard and easy: choosing one sex for someone else, whether it's in a relationship (no one wants to be alone in a relationship); or for a girl who is a virgin, who does not want to have a future, who is unsure about her own sexuality, and who does not know what it means to be a woman. It allows us to choose, or as feminists would choose, to be a true female-bodied person. A feminist can speak to this issue but rarely does, according to a recent BuzzFeed profile: It's very hard to say who is right and who isn't, that's for sure.