To suggest people who are sexually deviant like to pretend their relationship is with another person doesn't take into account the context for that person who actually is attracted to them. For instance, some guys that like their friends and go after their friends are not attracted to one another, though they do actually find that it's better to let their ex-lover look down on the way they behave. If they'd like to talk to her, she would rather tell them they have to go fuck their ass or something else and they will be attracted to her. However, since many of the people commenting have chosen to be explicit, or rather, have no qualms with it - with a few exceptions - you can safely assume there will be no shortage of comments and comments, with little to no context to indicate there is anything but a lack of interest. So it is a bit of a leap to guess what happened to the woman commenting, when I got the email about her posting this in the morning.