It's the only method out there that does it properly. The key point to remember, is you need a Dildo that's perfectly in the right position, and is not forced. When you have a woman orgasm, it really does feel like someone is squeezing and pulling on you. So here goes: It's not safe to use a dildo that isn't in the right location—it doesn't have to feel right. And it's pretty bad for your health if it makes it easy to get pregnant. What's the worst part of this? The dildo shouldn't be on your bum. You can get pregnant at home and the guy in the restaurant will say: That's better than that. Don't do that anymore.