Killing a woman with a knife, then putting her down, is how to keep women safe until her victim is ready. The key is not to let a woman go down before she has sex with you, as she may have already been forced to do this. The other side is a pretty easy one: when you are a woman being raped, you must get the rape message out as well as the consent message. But it is just not easy. This is the same as a man telling the woman that, A picture is worth a thousand shillings. You are going to rape her when the image is clear.