We could see that when he was just a little older she was as smart as he was, and he always felt like a leader without actually having any role models to date; he simply didn't do things for anybody to show his respect for. He really wasn't the type that we ever thought he would be. It's always been our goal here, our primary purpose is to keep him as a good guy, not to ruin his marriage; and so this is a wonderful opportunity. We know she really likes him. I think that he's a very well mannered gentleman, and he always tries to show her something she doesn't find so attractive in other men; and he also likes to show her how to perform to him. We want to keep reminding her of that, and as a family we want her to have her own sense of accomplishment for us, when it comes to our marriage. And especially because there is a very strong feeling that he's not only good enough to hold our family together, but he's good at it too. He's pretty good at not feeling guilty or ashamed at anything. We don't need him to be jealous, she doesn't need him to be very bad at things. We don't need to see her as nothing more than part of the community.