I think it's funny that I am an attractive woman, but I also think it's cool to get married to a man you like very much, and that's how I am now. I guess I did not understand the difference. My family has a good reputation in regards to how to put together a marriage plan for our kids even with two fathers. There are not many people that live next door to each other (even though there are several different groups who have families that share common interests). It comes down to one thing: if you're not willing to put that money directly toward your children and your family, then just give up. I am sure the problem will surface in the future, unless you take care of your kids well. There are all kinds of reasons why this should not be the case. In the meantime, there are people out there who just refuse to take responsibility for the circumstances. Even if you have a successful marriage life, you don't owe any of your children money that would pay for the expenses or travel which would be required, if there are so many problems, then you'll never have children and I would be extremely disappointed if you were to get married to someone who did this. I understand this, and you are always having trouble being the good person that you are. But if you do not understand this, you will end up throwing your children into the fire that will probably set you ablaze.