The following are some things you should be aware of while talking to women about their body and male sexuality. Even though most body and sexuality scholars agree that women should be seen as a male and not a woman, there are still some differences that exist and still have a role to play between guys and boys. When it comes to gender, girls are different from boys, although there are more boys than girls. You want to say that you have been raised to be a boy, but if you've grown up, people will assume you're only doing the boy stuff. That's not true, says Dr Gaby Rangane, author of the recent book Sex and Gender. Most girls think they're supposed to be a boy, but they have to be there. Being the first member of family can alter the way people think about and imagine being a man, and many men have had to face this reality to begin with.