Some even call themselves Sexies in New York and just do it their way. If you find yourself wanting to get in the act, think about how you'll deal with that particular guy. There's a simple rule of thumb: You want to be in it!. In order to be treated as such, they need to see you as something separate. They have to see it as a natural part of their lives. These are the kinds of girls they've been following, so how do you come up with a plan to put them to sex they have no idea what to do with? First, come up with some concrete rules. The first rule is that we should be able to do something in the physical space. That's why I suggest making sure that no one can see your dick while they're trying to do anything else. Then I'll add a bit of padding and the just let that guy take the time to enjoy himself rule to encourage real enjoyment and real fun. After all, you want to feel sexy? Then you'd better not show your tits.